Jul 27, 2023

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This will be your new, go-to manual on wash day.

Leslie Corona is the Senior Home Editor at REAL SIMPLE magazine. She has been styling, organizing, writing, and reporting on all things in the home space for a decade. She was previously at Good Housekeeping, HGTV Magazine, and Parents. She has shared her expertise on the TODAY show, Cheddar, and local television news outlets.

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A truism of modern housekeeping: The laundry is never done. And to pile on (pun intended), certain items might require pretreatment, special care, and maybe even a mysterious washer setting. If you feel like you’re perpetually tackling the job as if your clothes were on the line (they kinda are), this comprehensive manual will help you take a load off.

Always look at care labels! Sometimes they’re written out in words, but icons are getting increasingly common among global brands, says Frances Kozen, senior lecturer in fiber science at Cornell University. Here’s some help translating those hieroglyphic figures (symbols can vary slightly).

At the very least, separate whites, lights, and darks. Even if dyes don’t bleed dramatically, mixing colors can turn lighter clothes a muddier shade, says Melissa Maker, founder of the Toronto-based cleaning company Clean My Space. If you want to go the extra mile, also avoid combining fabric types, which can cause pilling. A bit more on what belongs with what:

Address stains ASAP, and don’t machine dry an item until they’re gone—heat can set them for good! Zach Pozniak, vice president of Jeeves of Belgravia, a dry-cleaning service in New York City, shares fixes for three common ones.

Forget the hacks, Pozniak says. A quality stain remover and a little time—at least overnight—are what you need here. “Keep a stain remover by the hamper so you can hit stains before tossing items in,” he says. This gives the solution a chance to really sink in until laundry day. In fact, do this for most stains!

Rub a drop of dish soap into the spot, then let it sit. Check the garment under different lighting once it’s out of the washing machine. If the stain remains, add more dish soap and rewash.

Pozniak has two solutions: Spray the area with hydrogen peroxide and let it air-dry before washing, or soak the top overnight in hot water and powdered oxygen bleach .

Fill a bucket with cool water, plus a cup each of white vinegar and baking soda. Soak clothes overnight. For odor prevention, regularly add vinegar or another acidic product (like the clean-smelling Downy Rinse & Refresh, $7 for 25.5 oz.; to the fabric softener slot in your machine. If you tend to get extra fragrant when you work out—no judgments!—spray the underarms and groin with stain remover before tossing aired-out activewear into the hamper.

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This is your best friend for brightening fabrics, eliminating odors, and removing stains. With powdered hydrogen peroxide as its active ingredient, it’s gentler on clothes than chlorine bleach (see “Reconsider These Supplies”) and can be used on whites and colors. Stir the powder into a bucket of warm water (see package for amounts), then let your garments soak for at least four hours and up to overnight. If you want to add the powder to a cycle instead, dial up the water temperature to warm. For anyone who’s already used chlorine bleach on whites: Sorry, but the yellowing damage is done.

You can use a liquid detergent to pretreat stains, but stain removers come in packaging designed for easy application, like a spray or tube. (We like Shout and Puracy.) Apply it as soon as you can, and give it time to do its thing. As Pozniak says, “The longer you let it sit on a stain, the better it’s going to work. If you spray it on a garment right before you throw it into the washer, it won’t do much.”

These tools bounce around between items and separate them, boosting aeration and leading to faster drying. You know how sometimes you take sheets out of the dryer and they’re all in a damp knot? Wool dryer balls help prevent that, says Mary Marlowe Leverette, a fabric care expert in Columbia, South Carolina. Keep four to six in the dryer at all times.

Get a bunch of these, stat! They’re great for delicates, socks, hats, even headbands and hair ties. Bonus points if you buy the kind designed to filter microplastics ($35 each;—as in, the bits of plastic that shed from synthetic garments (yoga pants, fleece pullovers) when they’re washed and can end up in waterways.

Dish soap is a classic grease-stain remover, and shampoo is magic for spot-treating wool (it’s technically hair, after all!). Both of these should be applied by the drop and rubbed in. Let sit until the garment is ready to wash. Patric Richardson, author of Laundry Love, spritzes vodka on lightly worn clothes to deodorize between washes.

Your clothes will thank you, Richardson says.

Too much detergent can stiffen clothes, so if you cut back, you won’t need fabric softener at all. Can’t give it up? Just don’t use it on activewear or towels—it can leave a coating that traps stink and inhibits absorption.

They’re great at nixing static electricity, but they can leave a waxy residue. Instead, lower your dryer’s heat, and pull out clothes when they’re still a tiny bit damp. The moisture helps prevent clinging as stuff dries.

With some scented balls, the fragrance can linger on your clothes for months. They’re a nice option for those who want a supercharged fresh aroma, but for many folks, they’re unnecessary and overpowering.

Cotton is not naturally a dazzling white. Your pearly tees are dyed that shade, and bleach strips the dye. Plus, most of us dilute it incorrectly, and too much can degrade fabric over time. Bleach can be useful for disinfecting laundry after an illness like norovirus, as long as you use it within a year of opening.

Experts at three appliance manufacturers— GE, LG, and Whirlpool—explained some of the most confusing washer cycles.

For your fancy undies! And lacy camis and tights! This option (sometimes called “hand wash”) typically uses cold water with slow spin speeds and extended soaking periods—making it gentler on fabrics. Some items with “hand wash” on the care label can be cleaned on delicate, but garments with sequins or other embellishments could be quick to snag in these conditions. When in doubt, use a mesh bag.

Not to be confused with “rinse and spin,” which uses cold water, this cycle doesn’t use any water. It’s good if you’ve handwashed something, or if clothes are still sopping wet at the end of a cycle.

The eco-friendly button calls up cold water. This cycle is usually a little longer—70 minutes versus the standard 50—but it can still help reduce energy use by at least 35 percent, because the machine doesn’t have to do any of that water heating.

Some machines now call this the “casual” cycle, which is not much clearer! It helps reduce creasing in certain fabrics, like ones made of synthetic or blended materials (think polyester-cotton dress shirts and pants).

This uses warm water and a high spin speed, just like normal loads, but runs for less time. It’s best for washing only a few items, as full loads may not get entirely cleaned. Use about half the detergent you typically would—there’s usually one less rinse cycle, and you don’t want any lingering suds.

You can reduce drying time by upping the spin speed. Just keep in mind: Higher speeds will extract more water, but all the twisting can lead to more wrinkles and be rougher on fabrics.

Go for cold most of the time. This not only saves energy, it also helps prevent color fading, which hot water can accelerate. It’s OK to use warm sometimes, like when you’re adding oxygen bleach, because heat boosts its efficacy. The hot and (extra-hot) sanitizing cycles are generally unnecessary. If you’re nervous about cooties, Jennifer Ahoni, a scientist at Procter & Gamble, says don’t fret! “Research has shown that in cold water, the laundry process, along with good detergent, will usually kill most everyday germs—even the common cold.” Only consider bumping up to the sanitizing cycle if someone in your home has a serious stomach bug.

As silly as it sounds, you have to wash your washer! Run an empty cycle once a month with an Affresh tablet ($12 for 6; Afterward, Maker says, clean the door’s gasket with an antimold formula, like Concrobium Mold Control Spray ($14 for 32 oz.; Between loads, leave the door and detergent dispenser open to prevent mold. A magnetic door prop ($17; can help. FYI, fabric softeners can coat your machine’s drum and lead to mildew!

The trendy process of laundry stripping—which entails soaking garments in a tub of superhot water, borax, washing soda, and detergent for hours—is generally bad for clothes, as it can lead to fabric degradation and fading. That “dirty” water you see in TikTok demos is mostly just dye. Stripping once after buying used textiles could be beneficial, and you can do it occasionally for items that can’t go into the wash. Otherwise, give this fad a pass!

Aaand now it’s time to talk about what all those dryer buttons mean!

A no-heat choice! The dryer will draw in room-temperature air as the drum tosses your clothes. It’s best for fluffing up comforters, pillow inserts, and down jackets.

Turn to this low-heat option for thin or lacy fabrics, loosely woven pieces, items with embellishments, and anything dryer-safe and labeled, you guessed it, delicate. Also use it for activewear if you can’t hang-dry those items. (High temps can degrade stretchy or elastic fabric.)

You may remember this one from your washing machine. Select this setting and, at the end of the cycle, it’ll cool down blended fabrics while they’re still wrinkle-free and prevent new crinkles from happening.

This cycle uses a bit of water and heat to refresh clothes, gently releasing wrinkles and removing odors. If you have a crumpled blouse or lightly worn pants that aren’t exactly dirty, this is your cycle.

One of life’s greatest mysteries: Where do all the socks go? There’s a chance your machine is gobbling them up. They can get stuck in the filter on the bottom of some front loaders or, more rarely, in the dryer exhaust vent, which can be a fire hazard! (Check the vent periodically.) They might also fall while you’re transferring loads and end up between, behind, or beneath machines. After you pull clothes out of the wash, always rotate the drum manually to loosen anything clinging, and feel around the gasket. Look around the area to make sure you got everything. And while you’re folding, shake out items in case socks are caught in a leg or sleeve. To help prevent disappearances, put all the socks in a large mesh bag; avoid packing them too tightly or they won’t get a thorough clean. Maker suggests pinning one onto the hamper so your fam can add their socks as they undress.

Speed up, smooth out, and scent loads.

The dryer is one of the biggest energy suckers in a home! Hanging is an easy way to be greener, says Melissa Breyer, editorial director of our sister brand Treehugger, a sustainability website. It can also help save your clothes from shrinkage and abrasion. Not a fan of airing your laundry for all the neighbors to see? You can do it inside— just set up clothes near the boiler when it’s cold (not too close!). Depending on your climate, consider using a dehumidifier too.

Folding clothes immediately after the dryer buzzes will dras- tically reduce wrinkles. When unloading, pull out anything that needs to get hung, and don’t bother folding undies. (Will the world know they’re wrinkled? Nope.) Pairing socks will go faster if they’re grouped in mesh bags (see “Find Those Missing Socks”). Finally, roll towels instead of folding them. You’ll maximize storage space and feel like you’re at a spa when you grab one.

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